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“Veteran's Day ”
1 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Today: A new puppy to foster lovingly... reading, writing, love and kindness... Love always, Hen ”
2 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“today... ”
3 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Memorial Day ”
4 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Love and Kindness... ”
5 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Valentine's Day, 2015: Sending warm thoughts to all. Love & Hearts, H. ”
6 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I was finally able to watch "The Notebook" last evening... a sad yet beautiful reminder...how that kind of passion can sustain a relationship...Read More »
7 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Christmas, 2014: Nothing turned out as planned, Maria got sick, so dinner at Ern's was postponed. But, the spirit of Christmas was all around me. ...Read More »
8 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Thanksgiving, 2014: Family connections and puppy Love... "...Quiet thoughts come floating down and settle softly to the ground Like gold of autumn...Read More »
9 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“A Veterans Day candle for you, Love, Hen ”
10 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“...4 years... where has the time gone? Rest peacefully, B... Love, H. ”
11 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Anniversary, honey. Love, Hen ”
12 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Father's Day from the kids... Leisha txtd yesterday; Jess will, no doubt, give a call or txt later. We miss you, honey. Love, Hen ”
13 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Sweet!! ”
14 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I Love You Daddy !!!!! ”
15 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Happy Birthday, Love... I was in SF several days ago with my folks... wandering around, learning to take photos... I wondered at what point in your...Read More »
16 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I've been thinking about us a lot lately... I've written quiet a few poems, some published on line, some just for me. I was looking through some...Read More »
17 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“...thank you for the song... the youtube version with the full orchestra was my favorite... ...When we first met, you wrote and read poetry to me......Read More »
18 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy New Year, my Love...Always, Hen ”
19 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Because...when all is said and done together, only our Depths remain... "...of holding hands, and red bouquets...and twilights trimmed in purple...Read More »
20 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Your favorite flower... ”
21 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Thanksgiving Day morning: Organic coffee with a foster pet who has no "Forever Home" yet... he is a sweet spirit... his name is Buzz... I Know...Read More »
22 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Oh, I am sooo Happy that this page Finally works again!! I have missed writing to you!! Well, so on 25 November, I turned another year older. ...Read More »
23 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Twenty-eight years ago... where did the time go.... ”
24 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Fathers Daddy I know that as I sit here in this hospitalbed, in this hospialgown, in this hospital, This is not the place we would choose to...Read More »
25 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“It was a particularly nostalgic Memorial Day this year... I am thankful for Loving family support and connections!! ”
26 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Birthday, B... Let's see... we probably would have gone to Maine this year to stay and drive the coast highway... Love, H ”
27 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Birthday to the Noblest man i've ever known. I Love You Dad ”
28 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Easter Morning, 2013: Rest with Jesus this day... Love, Hen ”
29 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“It is the first day of Spring... a cold, but sunny day... a good day to just take a drive with my camera, after a nice, long run... Your must be up...Read More »
30 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Valentines Day, "B"... Today, I would love to be on a coastal cliff somewhere where the loud, crashing waves could sing to me... Have a...Read More »
31 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy VD Day Daddy :) I Miss You so Much ! It just never gets any easier does it Daddy? With everything that I am, I hope and I pray that I will...Read More »
32 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Another new year... ”
33 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Christmas, 2012: A cold, Christmas Day... until evening's warmth... Rest peacefully, B... Love, Hen ”
34 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Well Daddy, She was good to me for almost 23 years,but Casper the Miata is now gone.. ”
35 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“I woke up crying again. I miss you dad. ”
36 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Happy Birthday to me... I don't have a crashing Pacific Ocean this year... but I do have a nice, long, black dress and boots for this chilly morning...Read More »
37 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Turkey Day Dad. I Love You ”
38 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Thanksgiving, 2012: It was a creative day... a table setting and meal that you would have loved. Love, Rest, and Peace... Hen ”
39 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“A Veteran's Day wish for you to rest peacefully... Love, Hen ”
40 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Today is the saddest day of the year. On your Birthday I can miss you and celebrate your life. But today all I can do is miss you. ”
41 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“It has been two years today... a sad morning. I wish you rest... Love, Hen ”
42 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Labor Day: It still hurts to come here... Over the past several weeks I have thought of you and how seeing you, when you first walked in the door...Read More »
43 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Sparklers, Homemade Ice Cream, and of course the Big Show. Always with the Bird Bath in the background. You sure could run fast if need be. LOL....Read More »
44 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“From us: ”
45 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Father's Day 2012: Jessy called and her babies were here with me. The kids enjoyed a cheeseburger and crispy curly fries meal that you would have...Read More »
46 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Gosh I Miss you Dad !!!!! ”
47 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Memorial Day, 2012, With Love, Hen ”
48 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“A candle for you this Armed Forces Day, With Love, Hen ”
49 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I couldn't call you to wish you a Happy Birthday....I never knew how much I would miss simple little things like that. Now i'm filled with this need...Read More »
50 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“This is exquisitely Beautiful, Alicia! Love, Hen ”
51 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta Choplin

“Happy Birthday, dear one. I wonder what coastal town you would have wanted to visit this day... With Love and Gratitude, Hen ”
52 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“The Gremlins changed the caption. This wreath is Nature's Beauty. ”
53 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Easter Sunday, 2012 A sweet day of sharing with friends and family. A sad, vacant chair at our patio meal. ”
54 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I would give anything in the world, for another Easter Egg Hunt with you. If you only knew how desperately I miss you. Happy Easter Dad I Love You ”
55 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Dad, I just wanted to Thank You and Henri for all the beautiful Valentine's Day cards you have sent me over the years. I kept them all, and...Read More »
56 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Happy Valentine's Day, honey. The day you asked me to marry you; thank you. It was a "long and winding road", I remember it now, this day....Read More »
57 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Today, it has been one month since the kindest man that I have ever known left this world for Heaven. If anyone was sure to make it there, it was my...Read More »
58 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I Miss you SO much Dad, I Love You ”
59 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“I Miss You so much!!!!!! I wish you were here to tell all my guy friends how "High Maintenance", I really am. I Love You Dad. ”
60 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Another New Year. Ray and Renee spoke their beautiful Wedding Vows yesterday; I was blessed to be there in their sacred moments. My precious...Read More »
61 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“This is the 2nd Christmas in 41yrs. that i'll spend without your jolly laugh and smile. ...Read More »
62 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“A sweet Christmas with family and grandkids; it is always a joy to share time with each of them. I wish you peace and a restful soul this lovely...Read More »
63 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“A sweet NatGeo Christmas Train Set puzzle: ”
64 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Sister Yvonne has joined you in Heaven; we all came together in a Celebration of Life for her. I will always deeply miss my Sister. You both rest...Read More »
65 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Birthday to me..........you soooo Loved my birthday; as though it were your own! ...yummy sweets to eat, and special, thoughtfully selected...Read More »
66 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Thanksgiving, honey. A year of loving family relationships has given me many days of thanks but, particularly, today. I wish you rest, peace...Read More »
67 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Veteran's Day, Honey. Rest in peace. Love, Hen ”
68 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Beautiful tree, honey!! Love, Hen ”
69 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“It was the morning of our new anniversary... I just didn't know, if I could bear to Ever return here, oh where did the time go? Some days a subtle...Read More »
70 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I can't believe it's been a year since I've Heard your calming voice..................., Held your loving hand............................, Or,...Read More »
71 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Eleven months today. My, where did the time go? I jus don't know...Rest in Peace, Love, Hen ”
72 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“A beautiful summertime beginning, this year: Grandkids, Disneyland, family times with lots of laughter and positive memories! Daughters and old...Read More »
73 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Last Father's Day I held you in my arms, This Father's Day I held you in my heart. My first Father's Day without you left me a broken little girl,...Read More »
74 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Happy Father's Day, honey. I can still see you sitting there with pink cushy rollers being put in your hair when Jess had you sitting in her beauty...Read More »
75 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Eight months today. A deep sadness for not having a friend to talk to. Here is a beautiful quote for today: "I define comfort as self-acceptance...Read More »
76 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Memorial Day, honey. This was always such a favorite day of ours because we were both military veterens. You were always so proud of your...Read More »
77 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“I need to correct my spelling of Veteran. ”
78 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy Birthday, honey. I know you would be happy to learn that the monster, Osama Bin Laden, is gone. The U.S. Navy killed him. One less evil...Read More »
79 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Hi Honey. It was a deeply peaceful Easter Sunday yesterday. I watched a dvd called The Gospel of John and it helped me to center and get through...Read More »
80 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Hi honey. Jessy and I really missed your presence this weekend. I just finished reading Kate Chopin's "The Awakening"; it helped me to understand...Read More »
81 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“So, while thinking about sharing the photos, I heard the perfect song that helped me to understand my need to do so; the song is called "American...Read More »
82 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“My first Valentines Day without a card from you. Happy VD Day Daddy. I Love You. ”
83 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Happy Valentine's Day, honey. It is a favorite day of yours because you got to eat sweets without me nagging too much. Today, I will post sweetness...Read More »
84 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Cypie and Blue reminded me of some photos that you need to see. Love, Hen ”
85 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Hi honey. Yesterday, it was 4 months ago that you went to Heaven. A very sad day. I know you are at peace now. Rest in our human love for you. ...Read More »
86 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Dad, Thank You for coming into my Dreams to let me know you were ok. I miss you. ”
87 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Today, the Hospice of Dayton held a Memorial service for you and others, honey. Each of you were memorialized and we all shed tears, smiled smiles...Read More »
88 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Honey, Your msg received: "My First Christmas in Heaven" I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below with tiny...Read More »
89 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Hi Honey, I also received your heartbreakingly beautiful second message: To my dearest family, some things I's like to say... but first of all, to...Read More »
90 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Your sweet nephews and, of course, your 49er foe, Mrs. Maria. Love, Hen ”
91 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“A sweet moment with Gramma Ham and a couple of generations. L, Hen ”
92 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Early am, before ballet conditioning, here is your best friend, my baby brother and new Grampa Ernie, at Christmas at their house. Oh, and in the...Read More »
93 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Hi honey. I just burned my dinner trying to get this picture downloaded. It is a cute one of the two Grannies, me and Maria, looking at baby...Read More »
94 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Hi honey. Here is a picture of Ross and Rachel's baby boy. He is one month old today. My, how time passes so quickly. Love, Hen ”
95 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy New Year, honey. A sad day for me today. I want to let you know that Jess and Alicia called/txtd last night. I was already sleeping but it...Read More »
96 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Happy New Year's Eve, honey. Today, I will make music CDs for Jessica. She has requested CDs of all of the Country Music ladies: Reba, Sara Evans,...Read More »
97 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Link to Air Force Times Magazine Nov 2010 http://www.airforcetimes.com/news/2010/11/airforce-oct10-odeaths-112310w/ I Love You Dad! ”
98 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia

“Merry Christmas, honey. I will always remember our special moments each Christmas morning. I love you and cherish our memories. Love, Hen ”
99 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta

“Merry Christmas Eve, honey. I am putting up the little Christmas tree, listening to music, and pet-sitting for Gramma Ham. I didn't know how much I...Read More »
100 of 100+ | Posted by: Henrietta


CHOPLIN, John Robert "Bob", age 71 of Monterey California, passed away on Saturday, October 2, 2010 at Hospice of Dayton. Bob served his country in the US Air Force from which he retired in 1986. He earned his PhD at the University of Texas at Austin and became a Professor at the Naval Post Graduate School in Monterey, California where he retired in 2003. Bob was a devoted family man who loved traveling, playing tennis and his San Francisco 49'ers. Preceded in death by his parents, Ralph and Rosa Choplin. Bob is survived by his loving wife of 25 years, Henrietta K. Choplin; daughters Alicia, her mother Lori, Jessica and her husband Justin; brother Ric; niece Diane, husband Jonathon and baby Jacob; grandchildren Blue, Cypress, and Johnni; and many loving friends. Scattering of ashes will be held at a private family ceremony in San Diego, CA. Special "Thank You" to his loving friends at AA and all of the medical professionals who helped with his care. In lieu of flowers you may wish to register with "donatelife.com".

-obituary from Routsong Funeral Home www.routsong.com